I saw this in my tweet today and checked it out:
A church family from the same generation isn't much of a family. At first I could not make out what it meant (I read it on the fly), but when I got to the article published in Christianity Today, I couldn't agree more with the writer.
It is an excellent read - and especially for those die-hards who would push for church segregation, i.e. Children Church, Youth Church, Businessmen Church, or however-else-you-can-have-it, take a read and tell me if this is not true: "Including all age groups in congregational life teaches everyone to live together in love and forbearance."
Segregated in a Whole New Way
A church family from the same generation isn't much of a family.
Mollie Ziegler Hemingway | posted 1/28/2010 09:35AM
"Cool! Your church has funerals," a friend recently said after I told him about attending one for a fellow parishioner at my church.
My friend attends one of those churches that meet in a Cineplex. Ever since he first told me about his theater church, I had wondered about the logistics of baptisms, weddings, and funerals.
It turns out that the entire membership of his congregation ranges in age from late teens to late 20s. Baptisms are rare and handled at other venues. As far as he knows, they've never had a funeral. And when people get married, they rent out traditional churches for the occasion.
That's what another friend of mine did when she married. Popcorn-scented upholstery and soda-sticky floors were not what she had dreamed of for her wedding day. When she had children, she stopped going altogether since her family didn't fit in with the targeted ministries to young singles. She's yet to find a new church home.
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I SOOO agree. It is one of the reasons Mickey & I refuse to be pushed into any group for the "over 50's", etc. and why we have so many young friends we love and love us. All of us have so much to teach and share with each other at all age levels.
ReplyDeletewe need each other ... all ages
ReplyDeleteI am middle aged to the very definition of it :) I enjoy it a lot chatting after church with the grandmamas and the young adults.
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